Dear Hunter Families,

I want to bring to your attention some issues from several Hunter Travel and Intramural games over the past few weekends.  The common theme from what occurred deals with the topic of adults and sportsmanship.

We have received several emails stating that some parents have been berating the referees or in some instances they have been yelling at players.  These are all things being brought to my attention and I was not an eyewitness to the events, however I see the necessity to offer a friendly reminder about spectator’s code of conduct.

To the Hunter Soccer parents:

• Do not yell at the referees. When you yell at a ref, you’re essentially trying to intimidate them. And in case you haven’t figured it out yet, there is a shortage of youth soccer referees. And you know why? Because no-one wants to ref in an environment of hostile coaches and parents. So as a Hunter Parent, I ask that you demonstrate good sportsmanship and always show respect to the game officials, even when you don’t agree with their decisions.
• Openly display respect for the opponent at all times. This is not the National Team or the EPL or MLS. It’s YOUTH SOCCER. Making negative/disparaging remarks at players is completely unacceptable!

I also want to be clear that our coaches will be reminded of this conduct regarding their behavior on the sidelines as well.  It is not easy to get coaches to volunteer to work with so many kids.  Over the years as Hunter Soccer has grown we have worked to educate and license our coaches to address the code of conduct on the sidelines.  However sometimes, in the excitement of the game, this can be forgotten and it is our job to remind them.   Hunter has never had a major issue with our coaches as yet, but when an issue comes up we will address it.  In my experience with our coaches, they have always worked to better themselves for their team.

Regardless of whether you are an adult, player, coach or official this value is paramount since it suggests that you care about yourself and how others perceive you. Sportsmanship Builds Character– Regardless of the outcome.

I leave you with this. Hunter Soccer’s goal is to build on player skills at all ages and levels, develop middle and high school players and to build character through teamwork and sportsmanship- all within an environment that is safe, welcoming and fun. Seeing our youth players having fun, learning to love the game, and making new friends will always take priority over wins and trophies.

Sincerely,
Bill Manchester
President